This week as I prepared for another New Beginnings, I discovered that the General Young Women Presidency has invited mothers to participate in Personal Progress. Also, our Stake YW Presidency has invited leaders to be working on it as well. So, I have recommitted as a mother and yw president to do Personal Progress. Since this is my "journal" I will be using it for discussion (if your willing to comment) and my thoughts on the experiences I am working on.
My first experiences discusses the roles of mothers. In "The Family: A Proclamation to the World" it lists some roles of mothers. These roles include providing spiritual and physical needs, teaching love and service to others, be law abiding citizens and teach this to our children, and teach them to keep the commandments. It also explains a mother's role is to nurture her children.
Reading about this, I can't help but think of the story I shared in New Beginnings. When Kylie was little, I was trying to teach her how to swing. As I pushed her I would say things like, "Legs out, lean back. Now tuck your legs in and lean forward." She couldn't figure it out. One day I babysat a little girl a year older than Kylie and they went out to play. Before I knew it, Kylie learned how to swing by watching this little girl do it beside her.
As mothers, the best way to teach is to do. If we are an example of service and love, they will learn service and love. If we are abiding citizens, we teach them to abide the law. If we keep the commandments, they will learn to keep the commandments. If we work beside them, they will learn.
Today, as I came down with my scriptures and Personal Progress (we don't have church until 1p.m.) my kids asked what I was doing. I told them and explained they could do similar things. Kylie got out her personal progress and began working as well. Jory T. went upstairs and worked on his Duty to God, and the little kids kept the TV off (that's a big one at our house).
I hope I can continue this because not only will it teach my children, but I will continue to progress in the gospel. I think if we teach by example, it will open up lines of communication about gospel principles. It worked today at least:)
My next experience discusses womanhood. What do you think are the most important attributes of being a mother? The Family: A Proclamation to the World is very clear that being a woman is a divine calling and preordained. I really like that. I used to argue a lot about how unfair it was to be a girl. Now, I can see the important place a woman has in society and especially in the family. When I went back to college, Jory worried I would turn into a feminist. Instead, the classes I took reaffirmed the importance of my calling as a mother. Studies showed the best possible situation for children to grow was in a home with both a mother and father who carried out the different roles. It testified once again that Heavenly Father's plan is the right way, and we should strive to emulate our roles as women.